Andrea Harner
rssicon15.jpg
andreaharnerblog AT gmail
This site is a member of the Blogads NYC Blog network!
Favorites
Dates

July 1, 2008

The Pitfalls of Perfectionism by Hara Estroff Marano, Psychology Today

s-TRACY-FLICK-large.jpg

So true!

Perfectionism seeps into the psyche and creates a pervasive personality style. It keeps people from engaging in challenging experiences; they don't get to discover what they truly like or to create their own identities. Perfectionism reduces playfulness and the assimilation of knowledge; if you're always focused on your own performance and on defending yourself, you can't focus on learning a task. Here's the cosmic thigh-slapper: Because it lowers the ability to take risks, perfectionism reduces creativity and innovation--exactly what's not adaptive in the global marketplace.

Yet, it does more. It is a steady source of negative emotions; rather than reaching toward something positive, those in its grip are focused on the very thing they most want to avoid--negative evaluation. Perfectionism, then, is an endless report card; it keeps people completely self-absorbed, engaged in perpetual self-evaluation--reaping relentless frustration and doomed to anxiety and depression.



BuzzFeed
If you're like me, you know absolutely nothing about either team that's playing in the Super Bowl this year, but you're going to watch anyway. With that in mind, here are all the men you should plan on staring at come Sunday because they are fine as hell.
Guess she can't whip her hair back and forth anymore.
I don't think I'll be able to sleep for a week after seeing these (literally) dead eyes. It's as though they realized they needed a figure of him three days ago and just gave another one a haircut and threw the gear on it. Update: Now with side-by-side comparison! (Thanks Dorsey!)
Add BuzzFeed to Your Site
Video projects



This Website was designed by Cat Savard